Just Had Another Grad Student Remind Me of Why I Can No Longer Help Random Academic Strangers
It's sad that graduate students studying with tenured faculty cannot get the help they need but I can no longer make up for the gaps in a system which has no room for me except to take knowledge on an as needed basis.
In the past, I've often helped grad students who needed some advice or guidance. But, for whatever reason, the majority never thank me or share copies of the work resulting from, in part, my consultation.
I hadn't had a request in a while but someone recently wrote asking for my advice, I gave it and, as has become the norm, they didn't bother to thank me or acknowledge the note.
This has been so consistent that at one time I brought it up with some people in an online dance historian discussion group. I was trying to decide how best to handle requests from students given that I wasn't in the academic system and didn't really appreciate having them take me for granted!
The sad result was someone saying that she "sensed" some negativity about my lack of academic employment and that's about all the pros had to offer.
So, if you write me for help, I will send you a link to this post as an explanation of why I will no longer help fill gaps in a system seemingly comprised of individuals who want my opinions but won't treat me with any of the respect due a professional, whether or not I'm currently working in their field. And that goes for students and faculty.
Note: This is a sad decision for me. I've always been very generous with my time and energy for folks who wanted to understand things that I spent a great deal of time learning. In part, that's because I was treated with great generosity by certain academics. To those individuals, and those individuals only, I apologize for not being able to continue to follow your examples.

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